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The Fighting Weight Theory -What's wrong with keeping your body for your man?

We ladies, when we are single work hard at our fabulousness. Hair, makeup and the gym to put an extra sparkle to our diamond. Then we meet “The One” and we become comfortable.Spend less time in front of the mirror, go to the gym less often, wear t-shirts and sweats more often at home. Our men complain of the change and we say love us as we are.

However, I say to my sistahs, our men are correct. Relationship should not equal complacency. What is wrong with keeping your body for your man? Not just any man at the club when we are on the hunt. What is wrong with giving your man the best of you on all fronts? Your heart, your love, your sexiness. Yes, we are more than the physical and want the man in our lives to love all of us as well he should, but there is nothing wrong with a pretty package filled with surprises. So pull out those stilettos and your sexy lingerie tonight not just on his birthday, Valentine’s Day etc. Learn a new skill whether it is belly dance, lap dance, pole dancing or anything else that enhances your shimmer. Become your man’s temptress and I guarantee he won’t be tempted by others. Treat your man like a King and he will know he has a Queen.


LuuLuu Caillouet is the co-founder of HipQuake - dance fitness studio located on the Southeast Side of Chicago. For information and class schedules visit

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Comment by Danielle So Chi Robinson on August 18, 2011 at 11:35am
No I am not saying stop when you find someone. Because when you do it for yourself, you won't stop.
Comment by LuuLuu Caillouet on August 18, 2011 at 10:17am
Of course you should maintain for yourself but the reality is most women work on their look to attract. So why stop when you find that special someone?
Comment by Danielle So Chi Robinson on August 18, 2011 at 4:56am
I agree with this post but, at the same time. I believe you should just do it for yourself. When you feel sexy your man will notice you even if you have on sweats. Its not just a look but a feeling, what I like to do is just stand in front of the mirror and stare at myself. Building up my confidence. Telling myself I am sexy and beautiful. And my man notices that. I will have my hair wrapped and in my pj's and my man will walk past and stare and tell me I am sexy.

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