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My 9 rules for business and personal relationships...
1. If you have a problem with me, come to me privately.
2. If I have a problem with you, I will come to you privately.
3. If someone has a problem with me and they come to you, send them to me...and I will do the same for you.
4. If someone consistently will not come to me, say lets go holla at him together- I'm sure he will sit down with us together, I will do the same for you.
5. Be careful how you interpret me, I would rather do that- in matters that are unclear to you, please don't try to interpret my thoughts and actions- it is easy to misinterpret my intentions.
6. I will be careful how I interpret you
7. If it is confidential, don't TELL, if you or anyone else comes to me in confidence, I won't tell unless (a) the person is going to harm themselves (b) the person is going to physically harm someone else or (c) a child has been physically or sexually abused and I expect the same from you.
8. I don't manipulate, I will not be manipulated, do not let others try to manipulate you, do not let others try to manipulate me through you.
9. When in doubt just ask me, if I can answer it without misrepresenting something or breaking a confidence- I will.
"The respect of those I respect, is worth more than the applause of the peanut gallery!" -Ryan CEO of THE BFHS Network
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