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All Around the World, Same Song #Australia

I've been working in Sydney, Australia for the past couple days. Last night while walking around with a colleague named Sue, the subject of Aborigines came about. She compared Australian's treatment of them to America's treatment of Native Americans. I took the liberty of including African Americans and Mexicans into the conversation.…


Added by Queen Dalia on June 3, 2015 at 7:00am — No Comments

It's So Hard to Say Goodbye

I had a bad habit of staying in relationships too long. I stayed with my philandering first boyfriend because he knew secrets about me that I couldn't bear to get unleashed. I stayed with my ex-husband because I couldn't bear people talking about me behind my back being a failure in marriage.

All of these relationships lasted because I was afraid. Of embarrassment, of…


Added by Queen Dalia on April 3, 2015 at 5:00pm — No Comments

Is Debt Preventing You from Becoming an Entrepreneur?

The road to riches begins with ownership, whether it's a business or a home. I don't mean "renting to own" via loans, but outright owning your own things.…


Added by Queen Dalia on January 18, 2014 at 5:00am — No Comments

Karma is a Blessing!

None of our life stories are unique. Yes, there may be nuances of the details, but the central theme is not uncommon. I share my story in the hopes that it will free someone from a similar struggle.

I have been reading…


Added by Queen Dalia on June 3, 2013 at 2:00pm — No Comments

You Are

Nigger, petty, prissy, bitch, rude, selfish, know-it-all, white-acting: all words that people have called me. All words that I have been called and to which I negatively responded, allowing them to change my mood or feelings in the moment and long after the moment had passed. Words that intrinsically had no value until I assign them one with feelings, thoughts, actions or reactions. In doing so, I failed.

Pretty, smart, funny, generous, kind, eloquent, sophisticated: all words that I…


Added by Queen Dalia on March 25, 2012 at 11:00am — No Comments

Finger tapping

I told Ryan a week or so ago that I would start posting blogs on BFHS.  At THAT time, I had a list of topics I would blog.  Welp, that was then.  After finally logging into BFHS and messing around with my settings, I realize I no longer remember any of the topics I planned.  So, I found myself tapping my fingers on the keyboard and chewing on a nail, much like I did in college the hours before I was to hand in an assignment.  At least back then I had the pressure of a failing grade to…


Added by Queen Dalia on February 12, 2012 at 4:25pm — No Comments

Low Grade Bieber Fever

I'll admit to low grade Bieber fever. I'm not saying I thought about how cute I'd look in purple or that it irritated me that his "One Less Lonely Girl" is always white (I mean it's ok to dance "black" and sing "black" music to get white chicks, right? I digress as he has the right to serenade whom he pleases.) I won't ever admit to my eyes watering 4 times though.

My niece loved it and that's all that counts. She was hyped, screaming softly, oohing and aahing and dancing in her…


Added by Queen Dalia on February 17, 2011 at 8:00am — No Comments

Does It Matter If You're Black or White?

Written Wednesday, February 10, 2010

Today I put up some posts about John Mayer who said he's not open to dating black women. Later, I was called a racist by one of my non-black friends.

I could very well be a racist if it's based on my dating history. I've never dated anyone outside of my race. There have been offers....and subsequent rejections. I think the culture differences are too much for me. I can imagine me going over his family's house and hearing something… Continue

Added by Queen Dalia on February 11, 2010 at 8:19am — 3 Comments

New Construction Zone

A house was built on a rocky foundation. There were ingredients missing from the inside of the concrete, but the blueprints were so pretty that the imperfections were ignored. As time went on, the house began to shift. The homeowners noticed, but did not do anything to remedy the situation.

Soon, the homeowners got accustomed to the home and its uneven floors and cracked walls because the outside of the house was picture perfect. They then planted a small garden from which one long… Continue

Added by Queen Dalia on February 9, 2010 at 5:44am — 12 Comments

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