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I had a bad habit of staying in relationships too long. I stayed with my philandering first boyfriend because he knew secrets about me that I couldn't bear to get unleashed. I stayed with my ex-husband because I couldn't bear people talking about me behind my back being a failure in marriage.
All of these relationships lasted because I was afraid. Of embarrassment, of…
Added by Queen Dalia on April 3, 2015 at 8:00pm — No Comments
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None of our life stories are unique. Yes, there may be nuances of the details, but the central theme is not uncommon. I share my story in the hopes that it will free someone from a similar struggle.
I have been reading…
Added by Queen Dalia on June 3, 2013 at 5:00pm — No Comments
Nigger, petty, prissy, bitch, rude, selfish, know-it-all, white-acting: all words that people have called me. All words that I have been called and to which I negatively responded, allowing them to change my mood or feelings in the moment and long after the moment had passed. Words that intrinsically had no value until I assign them one with feelings, thoughts, actions or reactions. In doing so, I failed.
Pretty, smart, funny, generous, kind, eloquent, sophisticated: all words that I…Continue
Added by Queen Dalia on March 25, 2012 at 2:00pm — No Comments
I told Ryan a week or so ago that I would start posting blogs on BFHS. At THAT time, I had a list of topics I would blog. Welp, that was then. After finally logging into BFHS and messing around with my settings, I realize I no longer remember any of the topics I planned. So, I found myself tapping my fingers on the keyboard and chewing on a nail, much like I did in college the hours before I was to hand in an assignment. At least back then I had the pressure of a failing grade to…Continue
Added by Queen Dalia on February 12, 2012 at 6:25pm — No Comments
I'll admit to low grade Bieber fever. I'm not saying I thought about how cute I'd look in purple or that it irritated me that his "One Less Lonely Girl" is always white (I mean it's ok to dance "black" and sing "black" music to get white chicks, right? I digress as he has the right to serenade whom he pleases.) I won't ever admit to my eyes watering 4 times though.
My niece loved it and that's all that counts. She was hyped, screaming softly, oohing and aahing and dancing in her…
Added by Queen Dalia on February 17, 2011 at 10:00am — No Comments