Queen Dalia's Page

Nigger, petty, prissy, bitch, rude, selfish, know-it-all, white-acting: all words that people have called me. All words that I have been called and to which I negatively responded, allowing them to change my mood or feelings in the moment and long after the moment had passed. Words that intrinsically had no value until I assign them one with feelings, thoughts, actions or reactions. In doing so, I failed.

Pretty, smart, funny, generous, kind, eloquent, sophisticated: all words that I…

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I told Ryan a week or so ago that I would start posting blogs on BFHS.  At THAT time, I had a list of topics I would blog.  Welp, that was then.  After finally logging into BFHS and messing around with my settings, I realize I no longer remember any of the topics I planned.  So, I found myself tapping my fingers on the keyboard and chewing on a nail, much like I did in college the hours before I was to hand in an assignment.  At least back then I had the pressure of a failing grade to…

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I'll admit to low grade Bieber fever. I'm not saying I thought about how cute I'd look in purple or that it irritated me that his "One Less Lonely Girl" is always white (I mean it's ok to dance "black" and sing "black" music to get white chicks, right? I digress as he has the right to serenade whom he pleases.) I won't ever admit to my eyes watering 4 times though.



My niece loved it and that's all that counts. She was hyped, screaming softly, oohing and aahing and dancing in her…

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Written Wednesday, February 10, 2010



Today I put up some posts about John Mayer who said he's not open to dating black women. Later, I was called a racist by one of my non-black friends.



I could very well be a racist if it's based on my dating history. I've never dated anyone outside of my race. There have been offers....and subsequent rejections. I think the culture differences are too much for me. I can imagine me going over his family's house and hearing something… Continue